Sexuality and Citizenship Education 

Sue Lees (2000)

A version of this article was published in Madeleine Arnot & Jo-Anne Dillabough (eds) Challenging Democracy: Feminist Perspectives on the Education of Citizens. London: Taylor & Francis

 

In the final report of the Advisory Group on Education for Citizenship and the Teaching of Democracy in School (1998) and the Review of the National Curriculum (1999) issues concerning sexuality are conspicuously absent. In the last decade defining citizenship in narrowly political terms identified with the public sphere has been increasingly criticised (Arnot et al 1996, Richardson 1998, Prokhovnik 1998, Rahman forth). David Evans (1993) took the view that the sexual had been detached from the mainstream power relations and interests which, he pointed out, are nevertheless central to government and institutional policy and practice under capitalism (see also Inman & Buck 1995, Osler et al 1995).

In this chapter I shall show how sexuality is related to citizenship and why citizenship education requires an analysis of gendered power relations and the inequalities between sexual identities that are rooted in the dominance of heterosexuality as a social institution. This development would involve widening the Personal Social and Health Education (PSHE) curricular to make it relevant to the needs of society where the relations between men and women and between different ethnic groups are undergoing rapid change. I shall begin by discussing the relation between the social and the sexual order and then outline three issues which need to be embraced within citizenship education.

The Relation of the Social to the Sexual Order

The 'personal is political' was one of the core slogans of the women's liberation movement of the 1960s, where issues relating to sexuality were seen as relegated to the 'private' sphere. Ideas associated with breaking down the division between the private and the public sphere have been at the core of much feminist critique of the analysis of citizenship. Prokhovnic (1998) in her review of different critiques of citizenship suggests that the feminist challenge to the public/private dichotomy has involved, on the one hand the need to include gendered power within the family, marriage and sexuality, and, on the other hand a need to provide an alternative to the public/private split. Similarly, for the concept of citizenship to cover issues of sexuality, which are often and simplistically relegated to the private sphere, a radical redefinition of the public/private distinction is needed.

During the last decades, the whole distinction between the private and public spheres has become blurred as women have entered the public sphere of work, and the state has increasingly become involved in issues traditionally relegated to the private sphere such as reproductive rights, sex education and domestic violence (see Women's Unit 1999). The family with its sexual division of labour was seen by feminists in the 1970s as the main cause of women's subordination. In The Sexual Contract Carol Pateman analysed how the social contract, on which democratic government rested, is premised on the sexual control of women by men (see Arnot 1997). She traces the development of relationships based on equality or a social contract, and discusses the distinction between social contracts typical of labour relations and sexual contracts, typical of marriage relationships. She shows how sexual contracts were based on a slave type of relationship. Since old domestic contracts between a master and his slave and servants were labour contracts, she points out that the marriage contract can be seen as a kind of labour contract. Indeed, over the past three centuries feminists have compared wives to slaves, servants and workers.

With the separation of production from the family, male domestic labourers became workers. The important point that Pateman makes is that the wage labourer, in contrast to the domestic labourer, stands as a civil equal with his employer in the public realm of the capitalist market. A housewife remains in private domestic spheres, but unequal relation of domestic life are 'naturally so' and thus do not detract from the universal equality of the public world. The marriage contract reflects the patriarchal ordering of nature embodied in the original contract through which a sexual division of labour is constituted. Pateman perceptively argues that women cannot be inserted into the public sphere without involving a complete upheaval of the private sphere as women will be no longer prepared to accept the subordination based on a 'sexual' contract and will start demanding equality in the home. One result could be that young women will not find marriage attractive particularly if young men are not able to be the breadwinner.

The dramatic rise in the divorce rate, the fall in the rate of marriage and the rise of illegitimacy, can be seen as indications that this is already occurring (see Lees 1999). More children are born out of wedlock than ever before. According to Kiernan and Wicks (1990) by the year 2,000 it may be that as few as half of all children will have spent their lives in a conventional two parent family with both their natural parents. Women are marrying later and divorcing earlier. Three quarters of divorces are now initiated by women and divorce has increased sixfold in England and Wales over the past 30 years, a higher increase than in any other European country. More women are choosing to have children outside marriage. By the early 1990s 27 per cent of births were to unmarried mothers (Muncie et al 1995). This means that women do not have equal access to citizenship with men, due to her position in the family as carers. The social order, therefore, depends on what Connell (1987) referred to as the 'gender order, or the power relations between men and women. The gender order needs to be addressed as part of a person's understanding of how the social order works. Instead of viewing the family and sexual identities as biologically 'natural', this approach views the heterosexual nuclear family as an institution which has been legitimised by such essentialist discourses rather than as socially and historically constructed. I shall first explore three ways in which sexuality and citizenship have been linked which should provide core units on the citizenship curriculum - defining the role of sex/sexual education, the concept of sexual rights and its relation to certain groups which are discriminated against, and thirdly, the mechanisms of conformity and resistance and their relation to bullying and violence. Gendered power relations are crucial elements of each of these issues.

Sexuality and citizenship

Various suggestions have been put forward about how to widen the remit of the national curriculum. Osler (1995) suggests that citizenship education should cover forms of social exclusion and discrimination based on racism and sexism and should 'prepare young people for European citizenship and most effectively confront racism, xenophobia, sexual inequality and other challenges to social justice' (p 3). Others have argued for the inclusion of sex education. Edwards & Fogelman (1993), for example, are critical that the formation of sexual identity and sex education have not been integrated into debates about citizenship education. Inman & Buck (1995) go further and suggest that citizenship education should include issues relating not just to sex education, which they argue has a biological ring to it, but instead to what they prefer to term 'sexuality education'.

Firstly, the concept of citizenship is closely associated with the institutionalisation of heterosexual as well as male privilege (Richardson 1998). Citizenship education should, therefore, begin with a critique of what Connell (1995) refers to as 'the gender order' whereby the social, legal and institutional processes through which citizenship rights are established and maintained are gendered. If the subject of sexuality is to be addressed effectively, citizenship education needs to include an awareness of gendered power relations which structure sexual interaction and relationships (Thomson and Holland 1994). As Rahman (2,000 forth) argues this requires an understanding not only of the way inequalities between sexual identities are rooted in heterosexism, but rather than institutionalised or compulsory heterosexuality is an effect of the exploitation which constitutes gender division. Male homosexuality, for example, only came into being as a social identity as part of the processes which institutionalised a rigid division of gender identities. This is crucial to citizenship education which should be concerned with more than the imparting of knowledge, but also with an understanding of the way heterosexism creates the constraints on autonomy and choice. Adrienne Rich (1980) for example, suggested that heterosexuality and marriage are not actively chosen by girls and therefore could be seen as 'compulsory'. In other words the choice of getting married became a negative one - of avoided being left on the shelf. Such gender divisions are legitimised with recourse to essentialist discourses of gender such as 'it is unnatural for a woman not to marry and have children'.

Secondly, citizenship education should address current debates about what constitutes the rights of citizenship. It is argued that the right to choose and express your sexuality is a basic human right. In this sense certain groups such as lesbians or gay men have been denied equal social benefits as married couples (Evans 1993, Richardson 1998). This should not, in Rahman's (1998) view lead groups to seek equal rights (to marry for example) since the equal right agenda takes the normality of heterosexuality as given and hence fails to question the legitimacy of its institutionalisation.

The concept of citizenship is sometimes used to refer to sexual 'rights' granted or denied to other groups whose rights of citizenship can be seen to be curtailed as a result of family disruption or alternative family patterns as, for example, victims of male violence or single mothers. Research has shown that male violence against women has the effect of disempowering many victims by leading to the break up of relationships, loss of work, psychological disturbances and at the extreme mental breakdown and suicide (see Koss & Harvey 1991, Lees 1997). Single parent mothers are a particularly poverty stricken group considered by New Labour as socially excluded (Bradshaw & Millar 1991, Millar 1994, Mann and Roseneil 1999). In this context, the absence of satisfactory sex education which leads to teenage pregnancy will be seen as an example of the deprivation of citizen rights.

This leads to a third way in which sexuality is related to conceptions of citizenship and which citizenship education should address. Bullying and violence among teenagers is now more recognised, but is rarely linked to heterosexuality and the mechanisms by which the gender order is both developed and maintained. Bullying and violence, as I shall show, is intricately connected to the way sexual identities are formed and maintained in the heterosexual gender order.

Sex/ sexual Education and its relation to Citizenship Education

The Advisory Group on Education for Citizenship and the Teaching of Democracy in Schools (1998) examined the most effective way of providing citizenship education. The three strands identified by the committee were social and moral responsibility, political literacy and community involvement. The Advisory Group developed a national framework for PSHE in schools as part of the wider review of the national curriculum which led to proposals by the Qualifications and Curriculum Authority in 1999 for combining citizenship education with PSHE ( QCA 1999). Both reports address relationship issues in terms such as 'encouraging self respect' and 'non conflictual conflict resolution'. It states the aims as : to help develop communication and negotiation skills in a range of contexts including citizenship and human rights education.

What appears to be overlooked in both reports is the need to base relationship and communication education, let alone citizenship and human rights issues, in the context of the power relations within which they are embedded. In order to be effective, such education needs to address on the one hand issues of citizenship rights and the discriminatory forces that prevent some groups taking up their rights, and on the other hand, the power relations embedded in the social relations of family, the school and the community.

Introducing an analysis of gendered power into the curriculum, along with tolerance of gays and lesbians, presents the government with a dilemma. Education has always been concerned with fitting individuals into the status quo which is generally assumed to be the heterosexual two parent family. Both the last Conservative and present Labour government has been concerned about the growing disintegration of the traditional family and have been anxious to avoid being seen as encouraging promiscuity and immorality (see Kelly 1992, Thomson & Holland 1994) For this reason government attitudes to sex education have fluctuated and the scope has been both restricted and narrow (see Thomson 1994; Sex Education Forum 1992, Corlyon & McGuire 1997). So, under the Education Act 1986, for example, it was specified that sex education should be placed 'in a moral and family framework' (Durham 1991) and the controversial clause 28 of the Local Government Act (1988) went so far as to make it illegal for local authorities to intentionally promote homosexuality or the acceptability of homosexuality as 'a pretended relationship' sic family relationship.

Similar contradictions are reflected in the government's approach to Britain's record of the highest teenage conception and motherhood rates in Western Europe (Cabinet Office 1998, Dollomore, 1989, Hudson and Ineichen 1991). As Fox Harding (1999) points out, education circulars in the late 1980s and 1990s cautioned teachers against giving contraceptive advice to under 16s without parental knowledge or consent. Yet a major study of 37 countries found that adolescent pregnancy rates are lower in countries where there is greater availability of contraceptive services and sex education ( Jones et al 1985). Similarly, a more recent study of the World Health Organisation (Baldo, Aggleton and Slutkin 1993) indicated that knowledge of sex and contraception does not encourage or increase sexual activity among the young but may, in fact, be instrumental in delaying sexual activity and promoting safer sex.

While the promotion of sex education was one of the five priorities identified by the government white paper, Health of the Nation (HMSO 1992), recent statistics from the Green Paper on Public Health (Department of Health 1998) suggest that targets set to reduce the number of teenage conceptions by 50 per cent have not been met and there is evidence that teenage mothers may harm their own health and that of their babies and may become enmeshed in a cycle of deprivation (Folkes-Skinner & Meredith 1997). Instead of realising the need to develop a more effective and better resourced form of sex education in the UK, a high degree of consensus developed in hostility to single parents, and, in particular, to never married mothers who were seen as a particular burden on the state. Unmarried mothers were periodically attacked by politicians for 'jumping the Council housing queue', deliberately becoming pregnant in order to do so, and 'wedded to welfare'. Mann and Roseneil (1994) analysed the ways that single parents have been blamed for what Charles Murray (1990, 1994), American right wing social scientist, depicted as 'disintegration of the nuclear family as the principal source of so much social unrest and misery'. Murray had gained much publicity in the UK by propagating the idea that the rise in single mothers was linked to the threat of an 'underclass', whose three characteristics are illegitimacy, violent crime and drop out from the workforce.

In June 1999 the government announced a 10 year strategy, launched by Prime Minister, Tony Blair, to halve the rate of teenage pregnancies by 2010. The Social Exclusion Unit (SEU), a unit set up by the government to address problems of poverty and social exclusion, stated that early pregnancy prevents young women from gaining an education and has implications for both themselves and their children's ability to participate fully as citizens in society. Single parenthood is associated with poverty and deprivation and can be seen as connected to social exclusion in a number of respects: the interruption of schooling leading to low literacy levels, further social exclusion from the work force, and transmission of poverty to children.

Yet the contradiction implicit in addressing sexuality education at the same time as supporting the traditional family are still evident. There is a vagueness about the role of schools in the programme and concern about the lack of measures to improve the availability of contraception in particular in regard to providing contraceptive advice to young people (Guardian June 15, 1999). There is anxiety that the new guidance on prescribing contraception to under 16s will require health professionals to discuss 'the arguments for delaying sexual activity'. This is reminiscent of comments made by Tessa Jowell Public Health Minister, in 1998, when she suggested that underage girls who asked their doctors for contraceptives should be given a lecture on the dangers of promiscuity (Nicoll 1998).

What implications does this analysis have for the way that citizenship education should be taught in school? Sex education has been inadequately resourced and funded. Its remit is often severely limited and it fails to address the complexity of the way sex gender relations are structured. It is here that citizenship education in the broad sense could be a crucial tool for improving sexual education. Citizenship in this sense is seen as a set of rights, where educating young men and women about the way sexual identities are constructed, about sexual behaviour/orientation and contraception and about parenting responsibilities should be considered as important as the mechanics of contraceptive devices. Issues of responsibility and moral choice are mentioned in the Advisory Committee's report but not related to questions of gendered power relations. It is not enough, for example, to give young men and women information about contraception without examining the social context in which negotiation between young women and men takes place in regard to its use and the power relations between them. A consideration of Gilligan's (1982) 'In a Different Voice' would be a good beginning.

The Relation between Citizenship and Sexual Identity

The relation between education, sexual identity and citizenship rights has until recently been neglected. Feminists in the early 1980s criticised the youth subcultural analysis of young men's resistance strategies for ignoring how this was linked to the oppression of young women and of Asian and African Caribbean young people (McRobbie 1978, 1991, Amos & Parmar 1981, Carby 1982). In the 1990s the relation between education and the development of sexual identity has been an important focus of research and, as I shall show, is relevant to the issue of citizenship rights. Schools produce a range of masculinities and femininities, and, as Mac An Ghaill (1994:115) argues 'at the cultural level the promoted institutionalised modes of masculinity and femininity constructed in everyday social practices, provide the bases of women's subordination'. This also leads to female exclusion from certain citizenship rights and the exclusion of young men who do not fit the heterosexual ideal (i.e. gay men).

Citizenship education needs to contest gendered power relations which had a differential effect on girls and boys from different class and racial groups. Providing education on how sexual identities are constructed and choices constrained is an essential starting point. This leads us to consider the arena not just of sex education, but to the broader area of desire and sexuality along the lines suggested by Hanson & Patrick . They persuasively argued that young people should be provided with 'an understanding of their sexuality, the choices that flow from it and the knowledge, understanding and power to make those choices positive, responsible and informed' (See in Inman & Buck 1995: 76). Making informed choices is more complex than is often assumed. It requires an understanding of how the double standard operates and how gender relations are constructed. Such relations are all too often taken for granted. In the next section I shall outline three areas which should be integrated into the citizenship curriculum.

1. Constructing and maintaining male and female sexual identities

International social science research on masculinities expanded dramatically in the 1990s as researchers increasingly recognised the importance of examining different forms of masculinity and their relationship to each other and to constructs of femininity. It is important to grasp that constructions of masculinity and femininity are dynamic and are related to the public sphere and therefore to concepts of citizenship. Such constructions vary from one society to another, evolve within a historical contexts and are dynamic. We need to examine the way gender is situationally structured (depending too on certain differences of race, class and social orientation) in order to understand the relationship between gender, power and social structure (see Connell 1987, 1995; Messerschmidt 1995).

Connell (1995,1998) an Australian sociologist, showed how different gender regimes in schools are embodied hierarchically in educational institutions and that education produces different forms of masculinity. He uses the term 'gender order' to describe such patterns at the macro social level. These forms of masculinities have developed historically in different contexts and are dynamic. At a prestigious fee paying school he discovered social dynamics where the sporting 'bloods' claimed superiority in masculinity over the academic 'cyrils', and in a rural high school where the 'cool guys' distinguished themselves from the 'swots' and 'wimps'. With Carrigan et al (1987:183), Connell was the first to put forward the concept of hegemonic masculinity which he saw as constructed in relation to and opposed to femininity and subordinated forms of masculinity. He argued that the institutional structure of schooling is central to the production of masculine subjectivities.

Mac An Ghaill in The Making of Men (1994) explored how British boys learn to be men and how schools actively produce, through official and hidden curriculum, a range of masculinities. He agreed with Connell's view that the dominant form of hegemonic masculinity dominated subordinated forms of masculinity and forms of femininity (see also Carrigan et al 1987) and was linked to heterosexuality. A number of researchers agreed that the construction of an ideal heterosexuality is a crucial aspect of the structuring of gender relations (see Mac An Ghaill 1994, 1996, Connell 1995, 1998, Jackson. & Salisbury 1996, Griffin & Lees 1997). Connell (1987) also regarded 'emphasised femininity' ( organised around heterosexual appeal, desire and subordination) as a response to the dominance of hegemonic masculinity.

Research on identity and masculinity has shown that male power is based on the development and maintenance of hegemonic heterosexual masculinity. A number of studies have also reflected the way that girls were constrained by this hegemonic form of sex gender relations (see Halson 1989, McRobbie 1991, Holland et al 1998). In my research involving interviewing adolescent girls ( Lees 1986,1993) I found that the construction of female identity involved the construction of a difference between slags (whores, promiscuous girls) and drags ( marriageable respectable girls): Sexuality is not natural for women but only resides in the slag. The criteria for assessing reputation, from appearance (such as wearing your skirt too short or your top too low) to acting independently (such as going place on your own or being a single mum) are ambiguous. The lack of specific content of the term slag means that girls are in a permanent state of vulnerability and its actual usage is such that any unattached girl is vulnerable to being categorised as a slag. Their only defence is to deny the truth of the allegation or to revert to the protection of a boyfriend by getting attached. As Cain (1989) points out, the solidarity and collective denial of the validity of these criteria has not even occurred to the girls. They accept the criteria and end up assisting the boys in the policing of other girls; They are as likely to call other girls 'slags' as the boys. They become 'God's police in North London' (Summers 1975).

Hegemonic masculinity is defined in relation to the subordination of women, and in relation to other subordinated marginalised masculinities. Powerful young men in Joyce Canaan's (1998) study of young working class men's masculinity, for example, were referred to as 'cocks' whereas the softest young men were referred to as 'wankers' indicating that male genitals played a central role in young men's constructions of masculine identity. Canaan showed how the constructions of masculinity around hardness had direct consequences for the young women's experience of sexual relationships. Women were defined as 'soft' and therefore as subordinate. They could not choose their partners and once they entered into relationships with young men, they were seen as objects to be controlled.

2. Resistance, bullying and violence

Since the 1980s and 1990s there has been growing concern amongst teachers, educational policy makers and researchers as well as parents, about the incidence of bullying in schools (Mahony 1985, Tattum & Lane 1989, Arnot 1998). The Secretary of State's proposals (QCA 1999) for citizenship education are worthy but superficial. They include such platitudes as 'helping pupils to develop effective and fulfilling relationships', 'to respect differences between people', and to learn'the consequences of racism, teasing, bullying and violent behaviour, to respond appropriately to them and ask for help, to recognise and challenge stereotypes'. The phrasing of this epitomises the lack of understanding of why bullying occurs, the power relations involved and the role of educational practices in supporting rather than contesting such behaviour and the naivety of imagining that it is merely a questions of 'teaching appropriate responses'!

Bullying and violence need to be understood within the context of the gender and ethnic order. School policies can either encourage of discourage such phenomenon and are closely related to the 'gender/ethnic order' of particular schools. A major problem is that the prevalence of bullying that pervades many classrooms and playgrounds is often undetected by teachers and parents. Bronwyn Davies in her study of primary school children makes two important points about how gender differences are maintained in groups, and how bullying and the construction of sexual identities are inter-dependent. Firstly, she suggests that the dichotomy between 'male' and 'female' requires collective activity to maintain it. This collective activity she calls 'category maintenance work' which is primarily aimed at maintaining the category as meaningful. Secondly, it is the boundaries of male and female behaviour that this category maintenance work occurs. Girls and boys do not always behave in sex appropriate ways, nor do men and women. Often the boundaries between male and female appropriate behaviour are violated. This leads to a reaction to bring the deviant back into line (Davies 1989:29). This takes the form of bullying, of teasing and at the extreme, of violence.

Any deviant behaviour (for example a boy behaving like a girl) leads to other members of the group letting the deviant know they have done wrong. If a boy bursts into tears he is called a 'cry-baby'. If a girl does the same she is behaving just like a girl should and she is comforted. Teasing is usually about bringing category deviants back into line. Though individuals can deviate from the prescription of masculinity and femininity, their deviance gives rise to category maintenance work, in order to maintain the category as a meaningful one in the face of individual deviance which threatens it. Girls who behave like tomboys and boys who like to talk to girls are teased and disapproved of by the more conforming groups. Category maintenance work is more important for a boy than a girl as masculinity only reflects superiority if differentiated from femininity. For boys to hang around with girls is to acknowledge their similarity. To be similar to girls is to be associated with a lower status group which means that it may be worse for a boy to show feminine characteristics than for girls to show masculine characteristics. Hegemonic heterosexual masculinities are, therefore, constructed and defined in terms of the subordination of women, which reflect sexual rights and rights to servicing by women. Bullying is therefore a strategy for maintaining categories and is supported by the regime of the school. When an individual deviates from their sex category they are teased, or violence may result. It is not only pupils that bully, teachers can also be involved in similar activity. The most thorough study of how violence is present in educational practices for boys was undertaken by Beynon (1989) who found that violence towards boys was deeply embedded in teachers practices of crowd control in a 'tough' school he studied. He began by observing teachers and pupils in the process of transition to secondary school. He observed a number of staff employing threats as part of the institutional welcome. Boys were hit, pushed and shaken. In lower school a hard core of male teachers regarded coercive measures as synonymous with 'good' teaching and a virtue to be upheld. He argued that most violence threatens personal rights, undermines social order and is illegal. However some violence is deemed to be traditionally and commonsensically acceptable. The manhandling increased the more Benyon became accepted as a member of staff. The lower school was a site of much violence linked by staff and pupils to 'being a man' in which 'weaklings go under'. Men and boys expected to put up with a certain amount of manly behaviour if they were to win the accolade of being a 'good teacher' or a 'good lad'. Beynon argues that violence is at the heart of contemporary masculinity.

Donna Eder (1995) in a study of the social relations of adolescents in MID West America also found that great importance was placed on men being aggressive and tough and that the boys conveyed the importance of toughness through ritual insults. Many of the names the boys used to insult each other implied some form of weakness such as 'wimp' or 'squirt'. Other names such as 'pussy', 'girl', 'fag' and queer' associated lack of toughness with femininity or homosexuality. Boys enhanced their masculinity by throwing homosexual insults at boys who failed to engage in stereotypical masculine behaviour. Boys who treat girls as equals are similarly in danger of being stereotyped as gay.

Connolly (1995) in his study of different racial groups in primary schools confirmed Eder's findings. Sexuality, especially its emphasis on violence and power, manifested itself most frequently in terms of verbal abuse and insults. However, some of the group labelled the 'bad boys', predominantly African Caribbean low achievers were observed in the playground abusing girls physically, pushing them over, swinging them round and kicking them.. Discourse on girls were highly radicalised where being seen as having an Asian boyfriend was grounds for abuse. Connolly emphasises the active role that very young children play in construction and negotiation of their identities. He argues for the need to locate the forging of black masculinities within the specific contexts provided by racism. He shows the central role of the school and teaching staff in labelling of African Caribbean boys as 'bad' and the consequent self fulfilling prophecy which results.

Sexual bullying takes the form of calling girls 'slags' or 'too tight' which implies that on the one hand that they are promiscuous, or, on the other hand, that they are lesbian. In either case they are not conforming to the conventional woman, attached to a man. For boys, 'poof' and 'gay' are used as insults, not just to imply that a boy has a homosexual orientation, but that he does not fit into the model of hegemonic masculinity. The linguistic insults show there are real penalties for breaches of social behaviour and no girl or boy can afford to disregard. As Maureen Cain writes:

There are real rewards for conventional living, and real penalties for eschewing it. It is therefore necessary for researchers to recognise these realities and the discourse of sexually appropriate behaviour which expresses and constitutes them... it is clear that discourses can be used to authorise and justify painful and even penal practices, and that sometimes the use of language can constitute a pain itself ( Cain 1990: 7)

There is some evidence of a connection between harassment and performance (Williams et al 1996) but as Arnot et al (1998: 61) points out it is difficult to know the extent of bullying although a number of studies using open-ended questionnaires and interviews suggest that a high proportion of children have been bullied at some time in their school life (see Williams et al 1996, Pitts & Smith 1995, Balding et al 1996).

Another form of bullying is physical. Violence by boys in dating relationships is becoming more recognised (Roscoe & Kelley 1986, Lloyd 1991) and can be life threatening. It has been estimated that fifty per cent of rapes in the US are perpetuated against adolescents, with the vast majority taking place between people who know or are dating each other (Levy 1991). The FBI estimates that twenty per cent of female homicide victims in the United states are between the ages of fifteen and twenty four (Spaid 1993). In a British study (Holland et al 1991, 1998) involving interviewing 150 young women in London and Manchester between the ages of 16 and 20 nearly a quarter of the sample reported having had unwanted sexual intercourse in response to pressure from men. These pressures varied from mild insistence to intercourse with threats, physical assault, and child abuse. In their later study involving interviewing both young men and women, they identified the difficulties young women had in negotiating the use of contraception. They concluded that for women to negotiate safer sexual practices questions the conventional basis of sexual activity in which it is boys and men who 'determine the contours, meanings and practices of standard heterosexuality' ( Holland et al 1998). In the UK there is growing concern about gang rapes involving children, both as victims and as perpetrators. In May 1997, for example, four 10 year old boys and a 9 year old were arrested in West London for the alleged rape of a 9 year old girl in a school toilet during the lunch break. In the same week a boy of 13 appeared before Wolverhampton magistrates charged with raping a 12 year old girl on a disused railway line and two boys aged 13 and 15 were charged with indecent assault. It is likely that such cases are the tip of the iceberg ( Gregory and Lees 1999:109)

A survey by the Zero Tolerance Charitable Trust on young people's attitudes towards violence against women showed that some young men had a high acceptance of sexual violence (see Burton et al 1998). One in six thought they might force sex on a woman to whom they were married, one in eight thought they might force a long term girlfriend to have sex and one in ten thought they might 'if they could not stop themselves'. Other circumstances when they would rape a woman included if nobody would find out (9 per cent) and if they had spent a lot of money on her (6 per cent). As Hudson (1998: 247) points out pressure to accomplish an identity which approximates to 'hegemonic masculinity' helps to explain why in a socially unequal society which pushes so many young men into economic marginality, 'those who cannot demonstrate the affluence of successful masculinity will be likely to exaggerate through violence their claims that they are racially superior, heterosexual and macho'.

Aggressive and bullying behaviour is not confined to the school, but is all too prevalent in the home. Two women a week in England and Wales are killed by their men who are or have been their husbands or cohabitees ( Home Office Statistics 1997). The 1996 British Crime Survey reports 1 million incidents of domestic violence with the caveat that this is likely to be an underestimate. The British Crime survey found that injuries were far more serious for domestic incidents than for offences of mugging. Only 31 per cent of reported domestic violence incidents resulted in no injury compared to 67 per cent of muggings (Home Office 1996). Braithwaite & Daly (1994) argue that vigorous social education is needed to make sure that domestic violence, social and racial violence is behaviour which is strongly disapproved and about which perpetrators feel a strong sense of shame.

How can schools intervene? The Macdonald Inquiry Report revealed connections between a schools perpetuation of a white supremacist masculine ethos, tolerance of racial harassment, neglect of a disturbed and unhappy pupil, failure to deal with harassment (Kelly 1991). Shifting gender regimes in schools is no easy task. But there have been some developments. In the 1980s few schools had developed whole school policies, but by the close of the 1990s most schools have coherent policy requirements operating across all areas of institutional practice (see Arnot 1998: 84, Smith & Sharp 1994, Sharp and Smith 1994).). Some schools are developing more active policies to reduce sexism, racism and bullying Various resource packs have been developed. Hands off is a resource pack for teacher and youth workers to facilitate workshops with 11 - 14 year olds on stereotyping, bullying and domestic violence. The material was developed by Welsh Women's Aid and Save the Children for PSHE. The Sheffield Centre for HIV and Sexual Health has developed a resource and training pack called Girlpower - how far does it go?. This offers practical ways of developing assertiveness and communication in sexual relationships ( see Women's Unit Report 1999: 47) There needs to be much more recognition of the contexts in which bullying takes place. Complaints about and indicators of bullying need to be heard and recorded. Effective and appropriate liberating action needs to be taken. Schools need to recognise the way they perpetuate patterns of dominance and subordination, and conformity and exclusion..

A possible approach that could be introduced into schools involves more participatory methods of dispute resolution. A useful model is that suggested by prison abolitionists of the ideal of restorative justice or the setting up of 'alternative dispute settlements' (Braithwaite & Daly 1994). The conference model allows the victim to have representatives to urge the victim's view of events, in which a feminist or racial ethnic standpoint can be accommodated. The victim's definition of harm or threat is at the centre of proceedings. She/he is transformed from the humiliated victim to an active claimant, identifying her/his own requirement and drawing her/his own lines in future contacts with the perpetrator .

Conclusion

Citizenship education is to be introduced into the national curriculum, but there is little mention of the importance of addressing the ways schools develop and maintain the heterosexist gender order which leads to bullying and the denial of citizenship rights. We know a great deal more about the power relations within the school. This is at least a first step to shifting sex gender relations. Research into masculinities has indicated that boys are not a homogeneous group, and that masculinities vary and change and that schools have a key role not only in regard to sex education, but also in either enhancing or contesting sexism, bullying and violence. Citizenship education offers an opportunity to develop more integrated and comprehensive approach. It provides an opportunity for schools to develop whole school policies which would address problems of sexism, homophobia, bullying and violence which are endemic in the present structure of hegemonic heterosexuality. It is only when sex education adopts a wider framework which problematises the relations of power underlying sexual relations that progress can be made.

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