Marital Rape and Marital Murder

Sue Lees (2000)

a revised version of this article was published in J.Hamner & C.Itzen eds. Home Truths London: Routledge

Summary

This article assesses the impact of the abolition of the marital rape exemption in 1991 by analysing the outcome of cases of marital rape heard at the Court of Appeal between 1991 and 1995. Sentences at the Crown Courts are lower than for rapes by strangers and even so fifty per cent of marital rape cases were reduced on appeal This article criticises the reasons judges give for treating marital rape less seriously in the light of research which indicates that marital rape is just as, if not more, serious as rape by strangers and is linked in a number of respects with marital murder.

Background

Marital rape is a relatively unresearched topic. An exception is a paper by Naffine (1994) , an Australian sociologist, who seeks to explain why it has taken so long in all jurisdictions to abolish the rape immunity law for husbands. She argues that when laws giving women substantial rights to the joint property on divorce had long been in force, the rape immunity law survived precisely because its abolition challenged the view of women as possessions and passive objects of their husband's desires. Its abolition, therefore, carries the clear implication that a woman now has the right to self determination.

It is significant that the law on rape evolved to protect the theft of female sexual property from their husbands or fathers, not to protect women themselves. The law gave male power over wives an institutional legitimacy, in so far as the law on sexual assault was only significant when it involved the 'property' of a man, usually a virginal daughter or a wife. Rape violated not her bodily integrity, but the patriarchal ownership of her sexuality. Therefore it was not possible for a man to rape his wife as she belonged to him (see Clark 1987). The marital rape exemption was an extension of the historic domination and control of husbands over wives. The exemption had its origins in the following statement by Lord Chief Justice Matthew Hale, in 1736: 'But the husband cannot be guilty of rape committed by himself upon his lawful wife, for by their mutual matrimonial consent and contract the wife hath given up herself in this kind unto her husband which she cannot retract' (Hale 1971) . Hale wrote this at a time when marriage irrevocably bound a woman to her husband as his property.

Rape originated as a crime at common law. The penalty for the crime, and the fact that the crime was a felony, were referred to in a series of statutes which were consolidated first in the Offences against the Persons Acts (1861) and then in the Sexual Offences Act (1956). A statutory definition of rape was not given until section 1 (1) (a) of the Sexual Offences (Amendment) Act (1976) which expanded on the 1956 Act by providing that 'for the purposes of section 1 of the Sexual Offences Act (1956) ( which relates to rape) a man commits rape if he has unlawful sexual intercourse with a woman whom at the time of the intercourse does not consent to it '. Where used elsewhere in the 1956 Act the expression 'unlawful' sexual intercourse had been assumed to connote intercourse outside marriage, so it was generally accepted that, by using the word unlawful, Parliament intended at least in some respects to retain the marital immunity (see Law Commission 1992: 4).

The House of Lords precipitated a change in the law by its decision in R v. R in 1991, in which they declined to apply the generally accepted marital rape exemption. The decision abolished a man's immunity from rape whether or not he was living with his wife. The exception to immunity had previously been limited to husbands living separately under court order as was shown by a case in 1955 where, although the husband and wife were living separately, and the wife had started divorce proceedings, there was no evidence 'to say that the wife's implied consent to marital intercourse had been revoked by an act of the parties or by an act of the courts'. The Criminal Law Revision Committee considered the law should be changed but only in cases where the couple were not cohabiting. The House of Lords had precipitated this action by its decision in R v. R in 1991, in which they declined to apply the generally accepted marital rape exemption.

In February 1991, Lord Lane, the Lord Chief Justice, headed the special five judge Court of Appeal hearing and upheld the R v R decision stating 'This is not the creation of a new offence. It is the removal of a common law fiction which has become anachronistic and offensive'. In doing so the Court overturned 250 years of legal immunity for wife rapists, a decision that was upheld by the House of Lords on 23 October 1991. The House of Lords emphasised that Hale's statement no longer represented the law and that the time has now arrived 'when the law should declare that a rapist remains a rapist and is subject to the criminal law, irrespective of his relationship with his victim' in the following words:

the status of women, and particularly of married women, has changed out of all recognition in various ways which are very familiar and upon which it is unnecessary to go into detail. Apart from property matters and the availability of matrimonial remedies, one of the most important changes is that marriage is in modern times, regarded as a partnership of equals, and no longer one in which the wife must be the subservient chattel of the husband. Hale's proposition involves that by marriage a wife gives her irrevocable consent to sexual intercourse with her husband under all circumstances and irrespective of the state of her health or how she happens to be feeling at the time.

The abolition of the marital rape immunity was finally integrated into statute in June 1994.

Implementing the legislation

Since the Home Office do not categorise marital rape cases separately, we do not know how many convictions occur. We do however know that the number is tiny. In tracing the outcome of 100 cases of reported rape from three police stations between 1988-1990 no cases where the defendant and victim had had a previous sexual relationship resulted in a conviction (see Lees 1997, Gregory and Lees 1999). It is likely that if reported, such cases are more likely to be no-crimed by the police, not referred onto the Crown Prosecution Service or dropped by the CPS. One case involving a husband who had broken into the house, attempted to rape and assaulted his wife, had initially been categorised as attempted rape with ABH but had been downgraded to indecent assault and ABH as the complainant explained:

"I was married for 17 years. I took a lot over the years for the sake of the children. But you get to the point when you think 'that's it'. You can't explain the kind of pressure I was under when I left, phone calls and hassle. I had an injunction as well to keep him away. But he just flipped. I thought he was going to kill me. I'd never seen him like that. He said 'Sleep with me and I'll give you some money'. Then he tried to rape me. I fought and he beat me up. My daughter was in the house and she heard everything. The police arrested him for indecent assault. I said I wanted him arrested for attempted rape. He got off for indecent assault but was found guilty for ABH. I would rather he had been found guilty on the indecent assault than the ABH charge".

At the hearing the indecent assault charge was not upheld and only the ABH charge resulted in a conviction.

There is evidence from a number of studies that the closer the relationship between the defendant and complainant, the more difficult it is to gain a conviction (see Grace et al 1992, Gregory and Lees, 1996, 1999). It is likely that the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) are even more inclined to drop cases where there is a marital relationship. For example, Temkin (1997) describes a case of marital rape where the defendant had admitted the assault to the police, but the CPS decided not to bring a prosecution, arguing that there was 'very little likelihood' of the man reoffending and that charges would not be in the public interest. Only the most extreme of marital rape cases are, therefore, likely to reach court.

Sentences for rape cases have increased since 1986, when, in response to public outrage at lenient sentences imposed by a number of judges, Lord Chief Justice Lane issued new sentencing tariffs for rape, referred to as the Billam Guidelines. These set down guidelines for contested cases subject to various mitigating and aggravating factors. With no mitigating circumstances 5 years was the starting point with fifteen years for a campaign of rape. Where there were aggravating features, such as two or more rapists acting together, rape which takes place in the victim's home, rape coupled with the abuse of a position of responsibility, or rape involving abduction and confinement of the victim, the starting point was set at eight years. Various mitigating factors were also outlined: that young offenders could claim special mitigation, pleading guilty could reduce the sentence, and where the victim 'had behaved in a manner which was calculated to lead the defendant to believe that she would consent to sexual intercourse'. The guidelines do not refer to the previous sexual relationship between the victim and assailant as a mitigating factor, but does state the 'victims previous sexual experience is irrelevant'. This, as we shall see, has not prevented the courts using the existence of a previous sexual relationship between the victim and assailant as a mitigating factor in sentencing.

The Billam guidelines have led to some increase in length of sentences, but the effect of these changes has been exaggerated. The proportion of custodial sentences of at least five years (including life) for the substantive offence of rape rose from 42 per cent in 1985 to 79 per cent in 1987 and for attempted rape from 10 per cent to 40 per cent. Since 1987, however, the length of sentences has decreased. According to research conducted by Robertshaw (1994) there appear to be wide discrepancies in sentencing in different parts of the country. In some places sentences of less than three years or non custodial sentences are far more likely to be awarded than in other areas. This is contrary to the Billam guidelines that sentences under three years are not appropriate for rape even in cases with one or more mitigating factors. The Court of Appeal regarded such low sentences to be justified only in 'wholly exceptional circumstances' ( The Times 14 October 1993). The Home Office does not collect statistics with reference to plea, so it is not possible to know how many of those given low sentences had pleaded guilty. Robertshaw concluded that 'nothing is known of the particular combination of factors in each case, but the statistics suggest at least that in some courts the 'wholly exceptional' is fairly frequent'. According to his calculations 40 per cent of sentences in 1991 were of 5 years or less. He concluded that there were grounds for a thorough monitoring and review of rape sentences and perhaps of the criteria for approving judges for this class of cases .

Contrary to the 1991 instruction that the relationship between the perpetrator and victim should not be a relevant factor in sentencing, cases involving marital rape receive significantly lower sentences than those involving rapes by strangers. In the past this appears to have acted as a mitigating factor. Lloyd and Walmsley (1989) compared rape sentencing in 1973 and 1985 and found that in both years stranger rapists received much longer sentences than rapists who were acquaintances or intimates. More recently following a change in the law, Ranyard & Pease (1994:215) also concluded that the judiciary has shown 'apparent indifference to the scaling provisions of Billam'. Rumney (1999) argues that this is not due to inconsistency, but is a deliberate policy. In his comparison of Court of Appeal cases, he found that courts continued to discriminate against married women by passing lower sentences for marital rape than for other types of rape. A statistical comparison of sentences for different types of rape was conducted. In comparing marital rape cases that went to appeal between 1988 and 1998, he found an average level of sentencing in cases of stranger rape of 8.7 years compared to a level of 4.9 years in cases of marital rape (which included an average of 3.3 years in cases where the married couple were still cohabiting and 6.5 years where the married couple were no longer co-habiting at the time of the rape). This judicial response, he argued, mirrored the traditional ineffectiveness of the judiciary in dealing with violence within the domestic sphere.

Court of Appeal Decisions

Before considering the Court of Appeal decisions, I shall briefly outline judges comments about marital rape which give some indication of the rationale used. In 1990, Sir Kenneth Jupp gave a man who twice raped his ex-wife a two year suspended sentence, observing: 'This is a rare sort of rape. It is not like someone being jumped on in the street. This is within the family and does not impinge on the public' (Kennedy 1992: 121) . In 1992 Mr Justice McCullough sentenced Sean Riley to three years after he had pleaded guilty to raping his wife. The judge made his views of marital rape explicit: ' If you had done this to a stranger the starting point would have been 8 years' . Riley's wife had decided to leave at the time of the offence but the couple were still living together. The prosecution alleged that Riley hit his wife and then raped her. Minutes later he had held a carving knife to her throat and raped her again. The judge did not appear to think this was life threatening and commented: ' To be raped by a stranger must be more terrifying and more long lasting in its effect'. Riley's wife Pauline was reported to have said:

That suggests that being raped by your husband is not as awful as being raped by someone you don't know. The judge has got it wrong. Being raped by your own husband is very much worse. Here you are being violated by the man you have loved, trusted and had children with. It's unbelievably terrible and heart-breaking.

Judges who regard marital rape as less serious than stranger rape, are failing to distinguish rape from sex. Such a view is also reflected in the decisions of the Court of Appeal. The first case in 1988 after the Billam guidelines were introduced was Berry where a man convicted of raping his girlfriend after they had broken up was reduced from 6 to 4 years. Lord Justice Mustill summed up in the following way:

These facts show that this case if far from those which, for example, a woman walking home has been set upon by a total stranger and violated… the rape of a former wife or mistress may have exceptional features which make it a less serious offence than otherwise it would be… in some instances the violation of the person and defilement that are inevitable features where a stranger rapes a woman are not always present to the same degree when the offender and the victim had previously had a long standing sexual relationship .

These same views are reflected in Thornton, another Court of Appeal case,. In R. v. Thornton, the Court of Appeal had to decide whether to uphold a two year sentence on a man convicted of raping a former girlfriend. Lord Chief Justice concluded:

The way in which we view the matter is this. The mere fact that the parties have over a period of nearly two years - 20 months - been living together and having regular sexual intercourse obviously does not license the man once that cohabitation or sexual intercourse has ceased to have intercourse with the girl willy-nilly. It is however a factor to which some weight can be given by the sentencing court for the reasons which Lord Justice Mustill set out (see above).

Why the length of their relationship should have any relevance is not explained. The problem is that judges are equating rape with sex rather than with sexual violence.

Court of Appeal decisions regarding marital rape since its common law abolition in 1991 were reviewed to investigate the effect of the change in the law. These appeal cases represent the longer sentences awarded - men receiving short prison or non-custodial sentences are unlikely to appeal least their sentences are increased. Sentences can be increased as well as decreased by the Court of Appeal. The Criminal Justice Act 1988 Section 36, confers power on the Attorney General to refer cases to the Court of Appeal when it appears to him that a sentence imposed in the Crown Court is unduly lenient.

Of the 10 cases which reached the England and Wales Court of Appeal between 1991 and 1995, five of the appeals on sentencing were rejected (the sentences averaged 5.4 years) and four of the remaining five resulted in the reduction of the sentences which had originally averaged 5 years. All the cases in which the sentences were upheld involved aggravating features, usually the use of a weapon combined with threats to kill or injuries or in two cases theft. In all cases the wife had either decided to separate or had already left, and there was evidence of previous violence from the husband. However in no cases were the sentences increased although the presence of such serious aggravating factors and the generally low level of sentences, indicates that the Billam guidelines were not been followed.

Only in the most extreme cases do judges take into account of the need for women to be protected against violence from husbands/exhusbands. Even when such violence is life threatening, there appears to be a certain reluctance to view it with the opprobrium it deserves. Even when the husband tracks his wife down in breach of injunctions, breaks into the house, rapes and threatens her, Appeal Court judges justify upholding sentences which are lower than Billam advised. In the case of R v. Guy, for example, an estranged husband, armed with a rifle and pistol, broke into his former wife's house, raped her and threatened her life four months after the separation. He also forced his penis into her mouth. Two months before he had attacked her which had led to her taking out a non molestation order, the terms of which were that he should not communicate with her or go within 100 yards of her house. He pleaded guilty to rape and possessing a firearm. In upholding the sentence the Appeal judges stated:

We have to ask ourselves whether it can be said that this sentence passed by the learned judge was either wrong in principle or manifestly excessive in length. As we have said, this was a rape of an extremely bad character. We are bound in these circumstances to put first, in order of priorities, the plight of the victim and the need for women to be protected from such behaviour, even against men to whom they have formerly been married, before other considerations'.

The sentence of 6 years imprisonment was upheld, but in view of the number of aggravating factors involved, including the breach of an injunction, this sentence is well below the level recommended by the Billam guidelines.

This contrasts with the sentences given to women who have been raped by burglars and intruders. According to Billam where a man has 'broken into or otherwise gained access to a place where the victim is living the starting point in sentencing should be eight years'. However when cases of stranger rape are analysed, the average sentence is 10.7 years whereas in cases involving wives the sentence falls to 6.7 years and in cases of relationship rape the average is only half the Billam recommended starting point at 4.1 years. Rumney (1999) concluded that 'even in cases where there are serious aggravating factors the highest sentence in any case of marital or relationship rape where the assailant has gained access to the victim's home is one of eight years and in many cases is significantly lower.

In two further cases (R v Malcolm) where the husband had threatened his former partner at knife point, stolen from her and subjected her to physical violence a sentence of 8 years was upheld and in (R v Stephen) where the defendant was found guilty of rape, threatening to kill and assault occasioning actual bodily harm, a 5 year sentence was upheld. In the fourth case reviewed here (R. v. Henshall ) the wife had attempted to withdraw the complaint of rape at knife point, the prosecution had gone ahead. Yet in spite of the husband admitting to raping his wife twice before, he was sentenced to a mere 3 years. A pre-sentence report indicated that the attacks were motivated by revenge, and in view of the aggravating features - the use of a weapon, threats to kill, the fact that the man on the second occasion broke in and the protracted nature of the second incident, the Court of Appeal did not increase the sentence. Lastly, in the case of R v Haywood, a five year sentence for rape was upheld, where the defendant had also been found guilty of stealing and dishonesty, offences which appear to be taken more seriously by the Court of Appeal.

According to Lord Taylor, the Lord Chief Justice, upholding these sentences represented a shift in sentencing policy, in spite of the fact that they are at the lower end of the scale recommended in the Billam guidelines. He stated:

It should not be thought that a different and lower scale of sentencing attaches automatically to rape by a husband as against that set out in Billam. All will depend on the circumstances of the individual case. Where the parties were cohabiting normally at the time and the husband insisted on intercourse against his wife's will, but without violence or threats, the consideration identified in Berry and approved in Thornton will no doubt be an important factor in reducing the level of sentencing. Where, however, the conduct is gross and does involve threats or violence, the facts of the marriage, of long cohabitation and that the defendant is no stranger will be of little significance. Clearly between these two extremes, there will be many intermediate degrees of gravity which judges will have to consider case by case.

This is however a strangely contradictory statement and does take into account that women are most at risk of being killed by partners when they have decided to leave or shortly after they have left.

Appeals where sentences were reduced

There appear to be two grounds for reducing sentences: firstly, where the couple are living together and, secondly, where there is evidence of contact between the wife, even when estranged, and the defendant. This is usually taken to imply that the couple are reconciled or considering reconciliation rather than to indicate that the wife is terrified of retaliation from the defendant on release. In the four cases where sentences averaged five years, this was reduced to an average of 3.4 years. In the remaining case (Hind), a 10 year sentence was reduced to six on the grounds that the 'victim had gone a long way to forgiving the defendant' and had written to him and visited him in prison. The details were as follows: when the victim had broken off the relationship the defendant had broken into the house at midnight, tied her hands behind her, undressed her, put a pillow over her head and raped her. He had forced oral sex and put his hands round her throat and squeezed until she became unconscious.

The details of the other four cases where sentences were reduced were as follows: In R v Hutchinson a six year sentence was reduced to five although again, the husband had broken into the house, after an injunction has been granted to the wife who was separated. The grounds for the reduction was a report that the wife had forgiven him and had indicated in committal proceedings that she wished to withdraw the complaint. Similarly, in Maskell the husband pleaded guilty to rape the sentence was reduced from four to three years. The Court of Appeal stated that 'he has regular visits from his children and friends and his relationship with his wife is good'. Since they had separated some months prior to the rape as a result of the defendant's heavy drinking, this seemed to be rather unlikely and no evidence was produced in court. (At the trial, defence counsel claimed to have seen letters from her to the defendant) . In Brown, the defendant's sentence was reduced from six to five years, although he had been subject to an injunction, and had broken into his ex cohabitee's house, raped and badly injured her. Brown had pleaded guilty to unlawfully wounding his former sexual partner by kicking her about the head and body. She had been bleeding badly and had to have seven stitches in her head wound. He was sentenced to two years for unlawful wounding and six years for the rape, to run concurrently. The judge who had sentenced him described him as 'an unreconstructed chauvinist of the first order'. At the appeal, the three Lord Justices reduced the sentence to five years arguing that 'having regard to the previous sexual relationship between these parties, the absence of any injury to Miss B and the absence of any weapon, we regard the sentence of six years on the rape charge as being too long'. This seems a strange argument in view of the conviction for unlawful wounding and the admission by the defence that there was no mitigation.

In the case of couples still cohabiting together, even shorter sentences appear to be the rule, and even these have a good chance of reduction on appeal. In Collier the sentence was reduced on the grounds that the appellant had pleaded guilty and 'while this was a serious rape, a sentence of three years was appropriate for the offence'. The details of the case gave no grounds for such a reduction. The defendant had pleaded guilty to buggery and rape of his cohabitee in front of their two children. He left the house returning several days later and was again violent towards her. The Lords of Appeal stated that they had taken into consideration that the assault had been aggravated by the fact that the children had witnessed the incident, but nonetheless reduced the sentence.

The Court of Appeal failed to consider in all these cases that an aggravating factor is that many marital rape victims have a well founded fear of the attack being repeated and are, for good reason, in fear of their lives.

Why some wives resume contact

There are two main reasons why women who have testified against their husbands or ex- husbands should try to retract evidence or communicate with their husbands in prison. As I have shown, some women who try to leave violent husbands are in real danger for their lives. When they have also testified against their husbands this danger is intensified. Cretney and Davis's (1997) study of the significance of compellability in the prosecution of domestic assault found that women expressed fears of retribution from their husband. One woman asked whether her complainant had been withdrawn because she loved her husband replied: 'It was partly that and partly the threats he made. He was going to send people up here to sort me out and for sex and things like that' (Cretney and Davis 1997: 86). Yet the threat to their lives is not taken seriously by the courts. Radford (1993) points out that legal provisions for battered women such as the Domestic Violence and Matrimonial Proceedings Act 1976 and the Domestic Proceedings and Magistrates' Courts Act 1978 are not often enforced and do not guarantee protection for wives.

Secondly, there is a strong tendency for women to minimise the threat to their lives in order to cope with the fear. This often prevents their escaping even when this is possible. This is analogous to the behaviour of victims of disaster and war (see also Symonds 1979). Like battered women, victims of disasters experience reactions of shock, denial, disbelief, and fear as well as withdrawal and confusion. Such denial leads to a delay in defining the situation accurately, and leads them to respond with dazed or apathetic behaviour. (Browne 1987: 123) Later reactions include suggestibility and dependence where victims may become euphoric and convince themselves that somehow everything will be alright and that they will wake up and find it was all a horrible dream. Research on victims of rape in particular indicate that they experience acute feelings of powerlessness, vulnerability, loss of control and self blame (see Burgess & Holmstrom 1974, Koss & Harvey 1991).

Browne( 1987: 125) also draws parallels between the principles of brainwashing used on prisoners of war and experiences of women in battering relationships. Key ingredients include:

isolation of the victim from outside contacts, and sources of help, humiliation and degradation followed by acts of kindness coupled with the threat of a return to the degraded state if some type of compliance is not obtained. Over time the victims of such treatment become apathetic, sometimes react with despair, and may finally totally submit.

Such reactions, combined with the real threat that their husbands may retaliate on release, explains why wives may agree to communicate with their ex-husbands., but such explanations do not appear to be introduced in court.

Myths about marital rape

One of the main disputes about rape has centred on how exactly to conceptualise and define rape and in particular its relationship to violence. This is of particular important in marital rape cases where the level of other physical violence appears to be more often present, certainly in the cases that reach court. The latter form of violence appears to be taken less seriously when inflicted by someone with whom a sexual relationship has taken place.

It has been argued that rape should be seen as an act of violence and humiliation rather than, as it is defined in Britain, as sexual coercion. Zsuzsanna Adler, a British criminologist, for example, who carried out the only previous study of English rape trials in the early 1980's, suggested that 'so long as rape is seen as an act of sexuality rather than aggression and hostility, it will continue to be interpreted as predominantly pleasurable to both parties rather than harmful to the victim'. (Adler 1987 p 11) The refusal to link the crime to sex can perhaps be seen as a reaction to claims that rape was the inevitable result of innate male aggression coupled with an uncontrollable sexual need. Research does not support this assumption. Groth and Birnbaum (1979) American psychologists who ran a treatment programme for convicted rapists, concluded that rape should be considered as pseudosexual act, a pattern of sexual behaviour that is concerned more with status, hostility, control and dominance than with the sensual pleasure of sexual satisfaction. He concluded that men did not rape because they were sexually frustrated. The offender always had other alternatives or outlet for his sexual desires.

A problem with defining rape as violence is that it would lead to an even greater need for the victim to have suffered physical injuries. As Smart pointed out 'consent is a defence against the accusation of common assault just as it is in rape. So, for example, if one boarded a crowded bus and another passenger stood painfully on your foot, he/she would have the defence that in entering such a situation you knowingly took the risk of some harm. In many rape cases the fear of greater injury is enough to make many women submit and, as is well documented, she may have little in the way of bruises or cuts. Thus to call rape a simple assault, or even actual or grievous bodily harm, would do little for women who are already particularly vulnerable in rape trials because they do not have visible physical injuries (Smart 1995 p 111). Calling rape violence fails to address the coercive nature of some male sexual behaviour when this is exactly what rape and rape trials are all about. If rape is to be seen as a sexual crime, this does not mean that it is an expression of sexual desire. Rather it should be seen as the use of sexuality to express issues of power and domination.

Mackinnon (1987), American Professor of Law, agrees that in defining rape as a crime of violence, the sexual aspect can be overlooked. She observes (1989:172) 'under law, rape is a sex crime that is not regarded as a crime when it looks like sex'. The injury of rape lies in the meaning of the act to its victim, but the standard for criminality lies in the meaning of the act to the assailant' ( 1989: 180). She points out that the problem is that in a male dominated society it is difficult to distinguish coercive and non coercive forms of social/sexual interaction. However the level of coercion in marital cases would appear to be extreme and even here, judges do not appear to acknowledge the gravity of the attacks.

Treating rapes by strangers as more serious than rapes by partners is based on other myths besides failing to make a proper distinction between consensual sexual relations and rape: Such myths as the assumption made by many judges, as we have seen, that that marital rape is less serious experience for the victim, or that men who rape strangers are a significantly more dangerous group of rapists. Regarding the latter, there is no evidence that rapists can be divided into distinct groups on the basis of whether or not they rape strangers, acquaintances or sexual partners/ wives. Homicidal rapists sometimes rape and kill both their wives and those they know less intimately. Frederick West was charged in 1994 with killing 13 women many of whom were tortured and raped, included his own wife and daughter. John Duffy, a homicidal rapist charged with raping and killing three women in 1990, also raped his wife before they separated. Richard Baker, a serial rapist, who worked as a nightclub DJ, raped both women whom he dated and leapt on women from behind in the classic 'stranger rape' scenario (Guardian, May 21, 1999). We do not know how many rapists have previously raped their wives but it certainly seems likely that many have. In 1993 Heather Gordon gave evidence that her husband, who was found guilty of raping and attempting to rape two girls aged 18 and 19 in Perth, had viciously raped her some time before. It is a myth that different types of men rape their wives than rape strangers.

Research into the effects of marital rape indicates that the trauma of being raped by someone with whom you are having or have had a previous sexual relationship is just as traumatic, if not more traumatic, than rape by a stranger. Russell (1990) in her US study of a random sample of 930 women interviewed in the 1980's, where 14 per cent said they had been raped by their husbands, found that a similar proportion of women had been extremely upset by marital and stranger rape. Moreover the long term effects of marital rape were greater than for rape by strangers. 52 per cent of women raped by their husbands and 39 per cent raped by strangers stated that they suffered 'great' long term effects. Russell concluded that her findings refuted the idea that wife rape is less traumatic than other forms of rape.

Painter (1991) in her study of a representative sample of 1,007 women in eleven different cities in the UK, found that 1 in 7 married women said they had been 'coerced' into sex which had had a very detrimental effect on their marriages. Yet only 20 per cent had revealed the rape to a police officer, social worker or Rape Crisis Centre ( p 54). Those who did disclose the rape were those who had been subjected to violent rape. Rape was often associated with other physical violence. 70 per cent of wives raped had been hit by their husbands and over half (56 per cent) said they had been threatened with physical violence. Victims experienced a variety of physical injuries including cuts, bruises, black eyes, broken bones and psychological traumas including depression, fear, shock, nausea and headaches. Painter concluded that ' not all cases are equally grave or serious, but the fact that almost half of those women raped by a husband had sought medical attention as a consequence is clear indication that rape by a husband is a serious matter'. Another factor that adds to the gravity of wife rape is that, unlike stranger rape, it tends to occur more than once. Painter, (1991:53) for example, also found that 'once a woman had been raped by her husband, the rapes continued to occur frequently'. 80 per cent of wives who said they had been raped had been raped on more than one occasion. (p 53).

In their extensive study of rape trauma and how it should be treated, American researchers, Koss & Harvey (1991:76) concluded that comparisons between victims and stranger and nonstranger rape uncovered no differences in reactions or recovery. Another comparative study of victims of stranger, nonromantic acquaintance, date and marital rapes found no differences in degree of psychological distress as measured by psychological tests of depression and anxiety (Koss et al 1988).

Some researchers argue that marital rape is more traumatic than stranger rape. Gidycz & Koss (1991) point out that rape by someone you know is an even more personal attack that rape by a stranger. It usually occurs in a situation previously associated with safety and privacy. Having been raped by someone she knows causes a woman to question her own judgement: her internal security checks have failed. Katz (1991) collected information on 87 victims, women over 17 who had been raped at least 6 months prior to the interview and compared the reactions of those who had been raped by strangers with those raped by acquaintances. He argued that a woman raped by an unknown assailant may suffer more brutal physical violence but in his view 'it is probably easier for her to see her own victimisation as a more random and less personal event' (p254). He found that women raped by strangers blamed themselves less for the rape, saw themselves in a more positive light, and felt closer to recovery than did victims of an attack by an acquaintance. The Law Commission !992 Report also accepted the view that that 'marital rape ought to be viewed by the criminal law on the same basis as extra-marital rape' (n10 at para3.18) since 'a number of respondents agreed that one reason why marital rape was as serious as, if not more serious than rape by a stranger was that it was an abuse of an act used to express love and an abuse of trust'.

In research carried out for the 1993 Dispatches documentary, Getting Away with Rape ( see Lees 1997) a questionnaire was completed by 100 women over the age of 17 who had been raped. I 4 of the assailants were raped by complete strangers and 86 had had some contact with the victim beforehand. This varied from minimal social contact to non-cohabiting boyfriends and ex-cohabitees or husbands, ex-lovers, or other relatives. 20 were raped by men with whom they had had previous consensual sex, 46 by general acquaintances such as work colleagues, friend's friend, person in a position of trust. and 20 by men they had met within the previous 24 hours.

The use of violence was similar and substantial in both the stranger and acquaintance groups (69.6% and 63.9% respectively). A higher proportion of strangers threatened to kill their victims (39% against 14%) and twice as many of the women raped by strangers believed their life was in danger (81.1% compared to 42%). Both groups however were likely to slap, push or handle their victims roughly, or forcibly hold them down (70-80%) and more of the acquaintance group choked or strangled their victims (23% as against 15%). This puts women in greater danger than is often appreciated as, in England, strangulation is a common method by which men kill women they know ( see Home Office Statistics 1997). Injuries and physical effects suffered by the women in both groups were remarkably similar. About half of both groups suffered minor bruises, scratches and soreness( 55% and 46%) and 27% , and 28% of respective groups suffered severe bruising and 2% serious cuts ( see Lees 1997).

The analysis of the questionnaires indicated that the effects on survivors were often dramatic and long lasting. Many changed their life style, moved house through fear that the rapist might return, had time off or gave up work, broke up relationships with men and required long term medication or counselling which was not often available. Many reactions are typical of what American researchers, Burgess & Holmstrom (1974) named the 'rape trauma syndrome' which many rape victims suffer from. Women raped by acquaintances found the experience even more difficult to come to terms with than those raped by strangers. They felt betrayed - not just by the men but by their own judgement. It also made them more fearful of men generally, since they no longer knew whom to trust. The fact that some women also blamed themselves for the rape made it harder for them to recover.

A woman I interviewed who had been raped by a cohabitee explained the lack of trust that ensued:

If you are raped by someone you think you know, you're totally shocked because you - you had an impression of this man and you think you know him and suddenly he shows a wild animal side of himself and you keep asking yourself 'Was I blind? Did he show these signs before, early in our relationship? Didn't I want to see it or has he suddenly turned into someone else? It makes it harder to trust people.

This body of research fails to support the reasoning by Appeal Court judges. In no case did the judges mention the possibility that marital rape may involve a breach of trust that should surely act as an aggravating factor in sentencing. This is in spite of breach of trust being taken into account in cases of child abuse (for example in D(1993) 14 Cr. App. R.(S.) 639 a father was convicted of rape and indecent assault on two daughters over a long period. The case was described as involving 'the gravest breach of trust imaginable'. Even in cases of theft, breach of trust is seen as an aggravating factor, and in this respect theft is being treated more seriously than rape ( see Rumney 1999)

MARITAL RAPE AND MARITAL MURDER

Rather than less serious than stranger rape, marital rape can indicate a woman's life has been and still is at risk. Around half of homicides of women in the UK are by their husband or co-habitee ( See Radford 1993) Stark & Flitcraft (1996: 130) in their review of homicide research world wide confirmed Lachman's 1978 conclusion that 'almost a third of all homicides take place within the immediate family, another 21 per cent in romantic triangles or lover's quarrels and 27 per cent among less intimate relatives and friends. In sum, at least half of all homicides and approximately 66 per cent of primary homicides are directly or indirectly domestic.

It is at the point of separation or divorce that women are most vulnerable to being killed. It is also the time they are vulnerable to being raped. Finkelhor & Yllo (1985) interviewed American women who had experienced rape by a husband or lover and concluded that wife rape is also most likely to occur during or after the break up of a relationship. Diana Russell (1990) found that most of the cases that reached court involved separated couples. In only one fifth (21 per cent) of the cases in which wife rape occurred was the couple still living together.

Ann Jones, who undertook a major American study of women who killed their partners, concluded that 'it is because women leave or try to, that they are killed'. (1991:367). She found that the reasons women kill men are different. Women most often kill when violent men simply will not quit. As one woman testified at her murder trial ' It seemed like the more I tried to get away, the harder he beat me'. At least half of all women who leave abusers are followed and harassed or assaulted again, many of them fatally. It was at the point of separation that their lives were most at risk.

In another US study Angela Browne found that 90 per cent of the women subjected to violence in the family thought the abuser could or would kill them and many were convinced that they could not escape this danger by leaving. She found that some violent men searched desperately for their partners once the woman left, often spending days and nights 'stalking her'. Even if she had moved away, they frequently attempted to follow her, travelling anywhere they thought she might be. Browne concluded 'She is theirs. She cannot leave and refuse to talk to them. They may nearly kill their mates, but they do not want to lose them' ( Browne 1987: 115). Some of the women had been separated or divorced for up to two years and yet were still experiencing life threatening harassment and abuse. She concluded that many women stay in violent marriages because they believe their partner would retaliate against an attempt to leave him with further violence ( See Browne 1987 : 113).

More recently, Canadian researchers, Wilson and Daly (1998) computed uxoricide rates for co-residing and estranged wives and also found an increased risk immediately after separation. They found that a remarkable proportion of uxoricide victims are estranged from their killers. They draw on a number of Australian research studies: Allen (1990), for example, reported that almost half of all wives who were killed in New South Wales in the late nineteenth century were separated from their killers at the time of the murder and the proportion was even higher in the 1930s.

Wilson & Daly (1998) presents the term sexual proprietariness to provide a guide to the repetitive theme which runs through homicide. They argue that violence against wives is a product of aggressive masculine inclinations to coerce and control wives and these inclinations evolved and assumed their present forms in order to deter infidelity and autonomy. Violence in pursuit of male sexual proprietariness, they argue, is an adaptive mechanism which evolved as a way of 'contributing to personal reproductive success in ancestral environments'. They see wife assault and wife murder as motivationally similar. Women who leave proprietary husbands are pursued, harassed, and threatened and sometimes killed and/or raped. Historically, as we have seen, the marital rape exemption embodied such proprietary control.

CONCLUSION

Marital rape and murder are linked in a number of ways. Both tend to occur when a relationship is breaking up or shortly after the couple have separated. Ending a relationship with a violent man places a woman at particular risk for her life - either at the point of separation or shortly afterwards. Marital rape can be the final straw that leads a woman to leave a violent relationship or it can be an act of revenge by a husband for leaving. In either case it indicates extreme proprietary control. Both marital rape and murder are forms of extreme coercion fuelled by revenge at the woman daring to leave or planning to leave proceeded by extreme possessiveness (Wilson et al 1993).

Two conclusions can be drawn from a review of Court of Appeal decisions between 1991 and 1995. In spite of the abolition of the marital rape exclusion, marital rape is still not regarded as 'real rape' by the judiciary. Sentences are both lower than the Billam guidelines laid down and yet have a fifty per cent chance of being further reduced on appeal. Lenient sentences passed by the lower courts even where the victim, as in the case of Hind, became unconscious when being strangled, are not increased. Moreover, in half the cases where sentences were reduced, the main ground for allowing appeals is that there has been some contact, however minimal, between the husband and wife. Such contact was often minimal, unsubstantiated and and could well have been caused by fear of retaliation since giving evidence against a husband or partner is likely to place the woman's life at risk from further violence.

Secondly, Court of Appeal judges fail to take into account the connection between marital rape and murder. Even when the victim has become unconscious due to strangulation, the charge is not attempted murder and judges do not adhere to the Billam guidelines ( See Hind 1993). This is in spite of evidence that women are more likely to be killed by an ex-partner or partner than by a stranger and some are killed in exactly the circumstances of the rape. Judges implicitly regard a husband as having certain sexual rights over his wife. The notion that rape is merely an extension of the sexual relationship reflects the myth, strongly contested by survivors and researchers, that rape is an expression of sexual desire rather than proprietary control often associated with murder.

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